"Blindsides always come down to a breakdown in communication."
A broken romantic relationship is always painful.
But we're most vulnerable when the relationship breakdown comes as a surprise. One minute, everything is fine; and the next, you've been blindsided.
So how can you get over being blindsided by a breakup?
Today, on The Leadership Formula, I'm sharing the personal story of what I went through when my marriage ended, how it activated every unhealthy part of my Enneagram 8 self, and why what came next was even worse.
I'll walk you through how the Enneagram helped me recognize my part in what happened and take ownership of it.
Listen in as I share how I used the Enneagram to reverse engineer my previous relationships, discover my partnership patterns, and make better relationship choices.
If you've been blindsided in a romanticpartnership, you need the tools and a guide to help you on your transformation journey to find the relationships you were meant for. I have one spot left for 1:1 VIP Enneagram Coaching. Now is the time to commit to changing your life in 2023!
What You Will Learn
Why spewing venom when a romantic relationship breaks down only hurts you (and the children)
How to take responsibility for your part in the breakdown of the relationship
Why it's vital to take responsibility for your part in what went wrong to ensure you don't end up in a cycle of relationships that end in the same way
Why playing the victim leads to attracting relationships with people that are a 'similar package, different wrapping paper'
How to reverse engineer your relationships to discover your unhealthy patterns
The real reason why staying for the children is ALWAYS the wrong decision
How the Enneagram can help you uncover the one tool you need in your arsenal to avoid being blindsided
Connect with Tracy
Tracy’s Website:
http://tracyomalley.com/
Tracy on Instagram:
https://www.instagram.com/tracy_omalley/
Tracy on Facebook:
https://www.facebook.com/tracy.omalley
Tracy on Twitter:
https://twitter.com/TracyOMall
Tracy on LinkedIn:
https://www.linkedin.com/in/tracy-o-malley/
Resources
EP293: Financial Blindsides -How losing it All Can Actually Be a Blessing. Using the Enneagram to Navigate that Uncertainty:
https://link.chtbl.com/X6p8dmwh
EP292: Blindsides- Do They Derail You or Do You Allow Them To Help You Prevail! How The Enneagram Can Help You Move Thru the Mess:
https://link.chtbl.com/dfBVc_ob
Book an Enneagram Kickstart Session:
http://tracyomalley.com/workwithme/
Apply for VIP 1:1 Enneagram Coaching:
http://tracyomalley.com/workwithme/
Review The Leadership Formula on Apple Podcasts:
https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-leadership-formula-podcast-enneagram-success/id1491541582
Email info@tracyomalley.com
A broken romantic relationship is always painful.
But we're most vulnerable when the relationship breakdown comes as a surprise. One minute, everything is fine; and the next, you've been blindsided.
So how can you get over being blindsided by a breakup?
Today, on The Leadership Formula, I'm sharing the personal story of what I went through when my marriage ended, how it activated every unhealthy part of my Enneagram 8 self, and why what came next was even worse.
I'll walk you through how the Enneagram helped me recognize my part in what happened and take ownership of it.
Listen in as I share how I used the Enneagram to reverse engineer my previous relationships, discover my partnership patterns, and make better relationship choices.
If you've been blindsided in a romanticpartnership, you need the tools and a guide to help you on your transformation journey to find the relationships you were meant for. I have one spot left for 1:1 VIP Enneagram Coaching. Now is the time to commit to changing your life in 2023!
What You Will Learn
Why spewing venom when a romantic relationship breaks down only hurts you (and the children)
How to take responsibility for your part in the breakdown of the relationship
Why it's vital to take responsibility for your part in what went wrong to ensure you don't end up in a cycle of relationships that end in the same way
Why playing the victim leads to attracting relationships with people that are a 'similar package, different wrapping paper'
How to reverse engineer your relationships to discover your unhealthy patterns
The real reason why staying for the children is ALWAYS the wrong decision
How the Enneagram can help you uncover the one tool you need in your arsenal to avoid being blindsided
Connect with Tracy
Tracy’s Website:
http://tracyomalley.com/
Tracy on Instagram:
https://www.instagram.com/tracy_omalley/
Tracy on Facebook:
https://www.facebook.com/tracy.omalley
Tracy on Twitter:
https://twitter.com/TracyOMall
Tracy on LinkedIn:
https://www.linkedin.com/in/tracy-o-malley/
Resources
EP293: Financial Blindsides -How losing it All Can Actually Be a Blessing. Using the Enneagram to Navigate that Uncertainty:
https://link.chtbl.com/X6p8dmwh
EP292: Blindsides- Do They Derail You or Do You Allow Them To Help You Prevail! How The Enneagram Can Help You Move Thru the Mess:
https://link.chtbl.com/dfBVc_ob
Book an Enneagram Kickstart Session:
http://tracyomalley.com/workwithme/
Apply for VIP 1:1 Enneagram Coaching:
http://tracyomalley.com/workwithme/
Review The Leadership Formula on Apple Podcasts:
https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-leadership-formula-podcast-enneagram-success/id1491541582
Email info@tracyomalley.com
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