Dec 01 2022 33 mins 3
"No matter how much pure intention you put into the world, it doesn't mean it's always going to be received that way or responded to as though it was."
Often, we're going along just fine, and then something happens, and a member of our supporting cast—our friends or business besties—decides, without warning, that their part in our life story is over.
This can come in different packaging, from betrayal to even being ghosted.
But no matter what format the end of your friendship takes, finding out someone you thought would always be in your life isn't going to be is always painful.
And it can be downright lonely, too, because as adults, making friends, (especially for women) can be very tricky.
So how can you get over being blindsided by the loss of a friendship?
Today, on The Leadership Formula, I'm sharing my personal story of my most recent friendship divorce, with someone I expected to be in my life for the rest of it.
Listen in as I share how I used the power of the Enneagram to see my blind spots, so I could take responsibility for my part in the ending of the relationship. I share how I moved forward, found new gifts in my life, and used my freed-up energy to find the right friend relationships for myself and how you can too!
I credit the Enneagram 100% for saving me this year in all my interpersonal relationships. It's why I'm so passionate about helping you integrate it into your life. I've worked hard to bring my Enneagram blueprints to you, which includes your own customized 75-page, Soul blueprint, so you have the exact tools you need to weather any blindsides that come your way. Find yours here!
What You Will Learn
Why being vulnerable with your friends after being the 'strong one' can sometimes create an uneven energy exchange
Why we often use anger as the bodyguard for sadness
Why it's important to understand that how we respond to these friendship divorces is up to us (and that's not for the faint of heart)
Where are inability to connect with friends of the same sex comes from
How being in friendship relationships with people who aren't there for you in the way you need them might be robbing you of the energy for friends who can
How to turn away from the betrayal you feel to focus on the lessons of the relationship
What happens to us internally when we stay in relationships we know aren't working
How honoring your intuition and walking away from broken relationships can lead to new doors being opened in your life
Connect with Tracy
Tracy’s Website:
http://tracyomalley.com/
Tracy on Instagram:
https://www.instagram.com/tracy_omalley/
Tracy on Facebook:
https://www.facebook.com/tracy.omalley
Tracy on Twitter:
https://twitter.com/TracyOMall
Tracy on LinkedIn:
https://www.linkedin.com/in/tracy-o-malley/
Resources
Purchase Your Enneagram Blueprint:
https://www.tracyomalley.com/workwithme
Justin Bieber - Lifetime:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0O2QX2A_qZw
EP296: Blindsided by a Romantic Partner - How You Can Turn That Pain into Something Beautiful Even While You are in the Middle of It:
https://link.chtbl.com/vdOQ8VV1
EP293: Financial Blindsides -How losing it All Can Actually Be a Blessing. Using the Enneagram to Navigate that Uncertainty:
https://link.chtbl.com/X6p8dmwh
EP292: Blindsides- Do They Derail You or Do You Allow Them to Help You Prevail! How The Enneagram Can Help You Move Thru the Mess:
https://link.chtbl.com/dfBVc_ob
Book an Enneagram Kickstart Session:
http://tracyomalley.com/workwithme/
Apply for VIP 1:1 Enneagram Coaching:
http://tracyomalley.com/workwithme/
Review The Leadership Formula on Apple Podcasts:
https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-leadership-formula-podcast-enneagram-success/id1491541582
Email [email protected]
Often, we're going along just fine, and then something happens, and a member of our supporting cast—our friends or business besties—decides, without warning, that their part in our life story is over.
This can come in different packaging, from betrayal to even being ghosted.
But no matter what format the end of your friendship takes, finding out someone you thought would always be in your life isn't going to be is always painful.
And it can be downright lonely, too, because as adults, making friends, (especially for women) can be very tricky.
So how can you get over being blindsided by the loss of a friendship?
Today, on The Leadership Formula, I'm sharing my personal story of my most recent friendship divorce, with someone I expected to be in my life for the rest of it.
Listen in as I share how I used the power of the Enneagram to see my blind spots, so I could take responsibility for my part in the ending of the relationship. I share how I moved forward, found new gifts in my life, and used my freed-up energy to find the right friend relationships for myself and how you can too!
I credit the Enneagram 100% for saving me this year in all my interpersonal relationships. It's why I'm so passionate about helping you integrate it into your life. I've worked hard to bring my Enneagram blueprints to you, which includes your own customized 75-page, Soul blueprint, so you have the exact tools you need to weather any blindsides that come your way. Find yours here!
What You Will Learn
Why being vulnerable with your friends after being the 'strong one' can sometimes create an uneven energy exchange
Why we often use anger as the bodyguard for sadness
Why it's important to understand that how we respond to these friendship divorces is up to us (and that's not for the faint of heart)
Where are inability to connect with friends of the same sex comes from
How being in friendship relationships with people who aren't there for you in the way you need them might be robbing you of the energy for friends who can
How to turn away from the betrayal you feel to focus on the lessons of the relationship
What happens to us internally when we stay in relationships we know aren't working
How honoring your intuition and walking away from broken relationships can lead to new doors being opened in your life
Connect with Tracy
Tracy’s Website:
http://tracyomalley.com/
Tracy on Instagram:
https://www.instagram.com/tracy_omalley/
Tracy on Facebook:
https://www.facebook.com/tracy.omalley
Tracy on Twitter:
https://twitter.com/TracyOMall
Tracy on LinkedIn:
https://www.linkedin.com/in/tracy-o-malley/
Resources
Purchase Your Enneagram Blueprint:
https://www.tracyomalley.com/workwithme
Justin Bieber - Lifetime:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0O2QX2A_qZw
EP296: Blindsided by a Romantic Partner - How You Can Turn That Pain into Something Beautiful Even While You are in the Middle of It:
https://link.chtbl.com/vdOQ8VV1
EP293: Financial Blindsides -How losing it All Can Actually Be a Blessing. Using the Enneagram to Navigate that Uncertainty:
https://link.chtbl.com/X6p8dmwh
EP292: Blindsides- Do They Derail You or Do You Allow Them to Help You Prevail! How The Enneagram Can Help You Move Thru the Mess:
https://link.chtbl.com/dfBVc_ob
Book an Enneagram Kickstart Session:
http://tracyomalley.com/workwithme/
Apply for VIP 1:1 Enneagram Coaching:
http://tracyomalley.com/workwithme/
Review The Leadership Formula on Apple Podcasts:
https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-leadership-formula-podcast-enneagram-success/id1491541582
Email [email protected]
