It's Going to Be Okay!

Nicky Asher-Bowling

It's going to be okay! is a heartwarming podcast hosted by Nicky Asher-Bowling a mother of three, where she shares her personal experiences, struggles, and joys of motherhood. The podcast aims to create a community for all moms to feel supported and uplifted, as they navigate the rollercoaster of parenthood. Listeners can expect to hear honest and unfiltered conversations about topics such as postpartum depression, sleep deprivation, mom guilt, and balancing work and family. read less
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Episodes

How to Be There for Someone You Love Who Has Depression
Apr 10 2024
How to Be There for Someone You Love Who Has Depression
Have you ever heard these myths about coping with depression? 1. You can't change your negative thoughts. 2. You have to go through it alone. 3. It's not okay to ask for help. But are these really true? Let's uncover the truth together. Stay tuned for some eye-opening insights! In this episode, you will be able to: ·       Discover effective coping strategies to manage moderate depression and improve your overall well-being. ·       Uncover the benefits of journaling for mental health and how it can positively impact your daily life. ·       Overcome feelings of worthlessness and learn to embrace your self-worth and value as an individual. ·       Learn how to support your family as a financial dominator and navigate the challenges that come with this role. ·       Gain valuable insights on how to help your partner with depression and provide meaningful support in their journey towards healing. The key moments in this episode are:            00:00:03 -                          Embracing the Journey with Depression and Anxiety                      00:07:47 -                          Coping with Depression and Self-Worth                      00:15:55 -                          Overcoming Loss and Financial Struggles                      00:17:44 -                          Navigating Unfulfilled Dreams and Self-Reflection                      00:02:04 -                          Offering Support and Encouragement                      00:17:53 -                          Feeling Defeated and Overwhelmed                      00:21:08 -                          Understanding the Speaker's Job                      00:27:22 -                          Finding Solutions and Support                      00:31:01 -                          Supporting a Loved One with Depression                      00:36:22 -                          Dealing with Personal Depression                      00:36:40 -                          Working Harder with Disabilities and Disorders                      00:37:17 -                          Teenage Challenges and Support                      00:37:55 -                          Overcoming Challenges                      00:38:22 -                          Working Harder with Disorders                      00:39:16 -                          Call to Action and Conclusion           Sign up now for a free transformation call at www.nickyasherbowling.com --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/itsgoingtobeokay/message
Navigating Mental Health Struggles: Support and Understanding
Mar 11 2024
Navigating Mental Health Struggles: Support and Understanding
Hey there! Do you ever feel like you're doing everything right, but still doubt if it's the right thing for you? You've been told to keep pushing through, but the feeling of being lost and unappreciated just won't go away, right? It's like hitting a wall and feeling incapable. If this sounds familiar, you're not alone. Let's talk about breaking free from this negative spiral and finding clarity and purpose. It's time to shift gears and prioritize your well-being, both mentally and emotionally. Ready to turn things around? In this episode, you will be able to: ·       Embrace your unique abilities and overcome self-doubt with practical coping strategies for impostor syndrome. ·       Prioritize your well-being and mental health with actionable tips that emphasize the importance of self-care. ·       Master practical techniques to conquer social anxiety and navigate social interactions with confidence. ·       Overcome feelings of isolation by discovering effective ways to seek connection and combat loneliness. ·       Unlock the power of emotional clarity and self-discovery through the transformative benefits of journaling. The key moments in this episode are:            00:00:33 -                          Introduction and Podcast Theme                      00:02:37 -                          Dealing with Mental Fatigue                      00:10:49 -                          Overcoming Feeling Lost                      00:16:00 -                          Coping with Loneliness                      00:21:28 -                          Coping Strategies for Social Situations                      00:22:17 -                          Managing Stress in a Workplace Setting                      00:27:11 -                          Support for Depression and Anxiety                      00:30:20 -                          Struggles with Mental Illness                      00:32:53 -                          Seeking Understanding and Support                      00:43:00 -                          Embracing Self-Care and Personal Growth                      00:43:34 -                          Introduction and Welcome                      00:43:51 -                          Farewell and Closing                      00:44:00 -                          Musical Interlude                      00:43:34 -                          Engaging with Listeners                      00:43:51 -           Expressing Gratitude           Connect with me here: ·       https://www.twitter.com/nasherbowling ·       https://www.facebook.com/itsgoingtobeokay.xo ·       https://www.linkedin.com/in/nickyasherbowling/ ·       https://www.nickyasherbowling.com ·       https://www.youtube.com/@itsgoingtobeokay. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/itsgoingtobeokay/message
Overcoming Impostor Syndrome: My 2 Year Podcasting Journey
Mar 4 2024
Overcoming Impostor Syndrome: My 2 Year Podcasting Journey
If you're feeling overwhelmed and frustrated with the slow progress of your podcast, then you are not alone! The amount of effort and time you've poured into creating your content might not be yielding the results you expected, leaving you feeling disheartened. You may find yourself comparing your numbers to others and wondering why your hard work isn't getting the recognition it deserves. It's time to address the challenges and find effective strategies to boost your podcast's growth and reach a wider audience. In this episode, you will be able to: ·       Discover effective coping strategies for mental health struggles, leading to a more balanced and fulfilling life.  ·       Overcome the trap of comparison and learn how to stay focused on your own path for personal growth and success.  ·       Explore the importance of self-care and spirituality in achieving a more meaningful and harmonious life.  ·       Embrace your journey of personal growth and self-realization, finding fulfillment in the process.  ·       Prioritize your individual goals and values to create a life that aligns with your true desires and aspirations. The key moments in this episode are:            00:00:24 -                          Two Years of Podcasting and Imposter Syndrome                      00:03:43 -                          Overcoming Challenges and Learning New Things                      00:12:00 -                          Free Workshop Announcement                      00:14:43 -                          Resource Sharing and Playlist Announcement                      00:16:07 -                          Dealing with Imposter Syndrome                      00:18:26 -                          Overcoming Comparison and Focusing on God's Plan                      00:19:24 -                          Importance of Following God's Word                      00:21:38 -                          Avoiding Comparison and Focusing on Goals                      00:23:08 -                          Finding the Right Path and Seeking Support                      00:25:52 -                          Upcoming Content and Personal Update           ·       Explore the mixtape playlists available on the website, categorized by topics such as men, mothers with exceptional stories, and holistic topics. Visit the website to access the playlists and share them with others. ·       Comment, like, and subscribe to the YouTube channel for more content. If already subscribed, consider sharing the content with someone else. ·       Take a few moments to rate and review the podcast on Spotify or Apple iTunes. This helps in boosting the podcast's visibility and reaching a wider audience. ·       Reach out on social media or via text to ask questions or seek guidance. The phone number is available on the social media page for direct contact. Connect with me here: ·       https://www.twitter.com/nasherbowling ·       https://www.nickyasherbowling.com ·       https://www.facebook.com/itsgoingtobeokay.xo ·       https://www.youtube.com/@itsgoingtobeokay. ·       https://www.linkedin.com/in/nickyasherbowling/ --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/itsgoingtobeokay/message
Depression Management Tips: Medication, Diet, and Finding Hope
Feb 12 2024
Depression Management Tips: Medication, Diet, and Finding Hope
Does the feeling of emptiness weigh heavily on your chest, making you ache for a sense of purpose? Have you been told to simply "snap out of it" or "think positive," only to feel more lost and alone? The pain of emptiness can be overwhelming, leaving you searching for answers. Let's explore effective coping mechanisms and ways to navigate through this challenging experience together. In this episode, you will be able to: ·       Discover effective strategies for living with depression and anxiety. ·       Learn how to manage mental health challenges with practical tips and insights. ·       Understand the importance of seeking professional help for mental well-being. ·       Explore the connection between food and mental health and how it can be used for support. ·       Gain coping mechanisms for managing and overcoming feelings of emptiness. The key moments in this episode are:            00:00:02 -                          Welcome to "It's Going to Be Okay"                      00:01:35 -                          Overcoming Challenges                      00:06:13 -                          Nutrition and Mental Health                      00:11:51 -                          Coping with Anxiety Symptoms                      00:20:03 -                          Understanding Anxiety                      00:21:08 -                          A Humiliating Experience                      00:29:00 -                          Coping with Depression                      00:30:59 -                          Seeking Professional Help                      00:32:12 -                          The Importance of Self-Care                      00:38:58 -                          Offering Support           --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/itsgoingtobeokay/message
The Healing Power of Helping: How Small Acts of Service Transformed My Mental Health
Jan 29 2024
The Healing Power of Helping: How Small Acts of Service Transformed My Mental Health
In this episode, you will be able to: Nicky Asher-Bowling, the host of "It's Going to Be Okay!" podcast, shares her personal journey of coping with depression through helping others. With a candid and laid-back approach, she recalls her experience of finding purpose and fulfillment in volunteering. Despite the initial struggle of mustering the energy to step out and lend a helping hand, she discovered the immense rewards it brought. Nicky vividly describes the positive impact of engaging in volunteer work, emphasizing the sense of purpose, social connections, and the reduction of stress that it brought into her life. Her narrative resonates with authenticity and relatability, drawing the audience into her world and creating a comforting space where they can find solace and inspiration. Through Nicky's heartfelt storytelling, listeners are encouraged to embrace the journey of supporting others as a pathway to managing their own mental health challenges, fostering a sense of community and resilience along the way., In her podcast "It's Going to Be Okay!" Nicky Asher-Bowling opens up about her personal battle with depression and how she found solace in helping others. Sharing her own struggles with getting out of the house and actually engaging in volunteer work, Nicky paints a vivid picture of the initial challenges she faced. However, as she delves into the positive impact of volunteering, she reveals the profound sense of purpose, social connections, and stress reduction it brought into her life. With a casual and relatable tone, Nicky's narrative resonates with authenticity, inviting listeners to join her on a journey of finding strength through supporting others. Her unique storytelling style creates a comforting space where individuals dealing with similar mental health challenges can feel understood and encouraged. By sharing her experiences, Nicky not only provides practical advice but also fosters a sense of community, reminding her audience that, even in the darkest moments, it's going to be okay. Volunteering gives individuals a sense of purpose and fulfillment. Knowing that you're making a positive contribution to your community or cause that you care about can boost self-esteem and overall well-being. Engaging in volunteer work can serve as a healthy distraction from personal stressors and challenges. Focusing on helping others can shift the focus away from one's own problems and reduce feelings of anxiety and stress. ·        Discover how helping others can improve your mental well-being. ·        Uncover the surprising benefits of volunteering for your mental health. ·        Learn why social connections formed through volunteering are essential for your well-being. ·        Find out how volunteer work can help you reduce stress and anxiety. ·        Explore the personal growth and fulfillment that comes from volunteering. Subscribe to the newsletter at www.nickyasherbowling.com. ·        Visit www.Nickyasherbowling.com to sign up for a free 1-hour consultation and assessment test for emotional well-being and depression experiences. ·        Comment, like, and subscribe if watching on YouTube. Share the video with someone you love. ·        Rate the podcast on Apple iTunes to provide feedback and support the show. ·        Consider starting or joining a support group, and reach out to Nicky for support if needed. · Look for volunteer opportunities that align with your interests, values, and schedule to maximize the benefits for your mental health. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/itsgoingtobeokay/message
Battling Anxiety: How I Built Resilience and Coping Strategies
Jan 22 2024
Battling Anxiety: How I Built Resilience and Coping Strategies
Does the constant weight of sadness and worry feel familiar to you? Have you been told to simply think positive or just relax to alleviate your depression and anxiety, only to feel even more frustrated and misunderstood? The pain of struggling with mental health challenges while being given ineffective advice can be overwhelming. It's time to discover practical coping strategies and build resilience to conquer depression and anxiety. In this episode, you will be able to: ·       Master practical coping strategies for mental health challenges. ·       Harness the power of self-awareness to manage mental health. ·       Build resilience to conquer depression and anxiety. ·       Explore the mind-body connection and nutrition for mental well-being. ·       Learn about the importance of a support system for mental health. The key moments in this episode are:            00:00:09 -                          Introduction to the Podcast                      00:03:23 -                          Lessons from Depression and Anxiety                      00:07:18 -                          Self-awareness and Coping Strategies                      00:12:03 -                          Building Resilience                      00:15:56 -                          Importance of Support Systems                      00:22:38 -                          Seeking Help for Mental Health                      00:23:50 -                          Mind-Body Connection                      00:26:43 -                          Self-Awareness and Coping Strategies                      00:28:23 -                          Utilizing Support Systems                      00:30:40 -                          Importance of Exercise and Outdoor Activities           The resources mentioned in this episode are: ·       Connect with Nicky on Facebook or Instagram at It's Going to Be Okay for further support and engagement. ·       Tune in to the podcast airing on Monday for more valuable insights and discussions on mental health and well-being. ·       Reach out to Nicky for coaching and support in managing mental health challenges. ·       Consider joining support groups to connect with others who understand and can provide valuable support. ·       Explore the mind-body connection by incorporating regular exercise, proper diet, and sufficient sleep into your routine for improved mental well-being. Connect with me here: ·       https://www.youtube.com/@itsgoingtobeokay. ·       https://www.youtube.com/@itsgoingtobeokay. ·       https://www.linkedin.com/in/nickyasherbowling/ ·       https://www.twitter.com/nasherbowling ·       https://www.facebook.com/itsgoingtobeokay.xo ·       https://www.nickyasherbowling.com --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/itsgoingtobeokay/message
Depressed? You're Not Alone: Creating a Circle of Support
Jan 15 2024
Depressed? You're Not Alone: Creating a Circle of Support
Does this sound familiar? You've been told to just snap out of it or think positively in order to manage your depression, but it only leaves you feeling more frustrated and misunderstood.  The pain of struggling with depression and being given ineffective advice can be overwhelming. It's time to discover practical self-care habits that actually work and provide the support you deserve for improved well-being. In this episode, you will be able to: ·       Master Mental Health Support: Discover effective strategies for managing your mental well-being.  ·       Transform Your Life with Self-Care Habits: Cultivate daily practices that uplift and empower you.  ·       Organize Your Living Space for Anxiety Relief: Learn how to create an environment that promotes calm and tranquility.  ·       Create a Safe Space for Discussing Depression: Foster open and supportive conversations about mental health.  ·       Manage Depressive Episodes with Positive Habits: Develop a toolkit of uplifting practices to navigate challenging times. The key moments in this episode are:            00:00:04 -                          Embracing the Journey with Depression and Anxiety                      00:03:06 -                          Unboxing the New Podcast Sign                      00:07:41 -                          Managing Self-Care During the Gloomies                      00:15:17 -                          Batch Cooking for Time Management                      00:21:35 -                          Frugal Living and Minimalism                      00:23:09 -                          Making Decisions with Support                      00:23:32 -                          Creating a Safe Space                      00:24:27 -                          Free Consultation and Assessment                      00:26:47 -                          Preparation for Emotional Well-being                      00:30:48 -              Simplifying Everyday Tasks           Also mentioned in this episode are two other YouTube Channels 1. Christine from Frugal Fit Mom - http://www.youtube.com/@FrugalFitMom 2. Dawn from The Minimal Mom - http://www.youtube.com/@TheMinimalMom Both channels offer great tips to help your daily living be a bit more organized. Don't forget I offer free consultations! Schedule your 1 hour appointment today! - https://calendly.com/itsgoingtobeokay/transformationcall --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/itsgoingtobeokay/message
When Anxiety Fuels Your Inner Karen: Healing Rage Before It Erupts
Jan 11 2024
When Anxiety Fuels Your Inner Karen: Healing Rage Before It Erupts
Hey friend! I'm Nicky and you just caught me chatting about a curious topic - are you a Karen? I recently explored what it means to exhibit "Karen" behavior. You know, that demanding, entitled attitude that rears its ugly head in public tantrums. We've all seen the memes and maybe even been embarrassed by over-the-top outbursts. But in my latest podcast episode, I dig deeper into the root causes. From anxiety disorders to depression, poor coping skills to lack of self-awareness, "Karen" eruptions often hint at an underlying mental health struggle. So if you (or someone you know) tend to fly off the handle, take a listen. You'll hear me share vulnerable stories of my own freak-outs pre-treatment (yes, I was a Karen!). More importantly, you'll learn healthy strategies to catch yourself before sparking that fiery rage dragon. Because our outbursts hurt us far more than others. And each of us deserves compassion, self-care, and practical tools to communicate in constructive ways. So settle in with your favorite latte and hit play to hear the full Karen conversation. We'll even cover signs that anxiety or depression may be worsening those tendencies. My goal is to help you recognize unhealthy patterns and choose new responses that heal. No judgement, just honest talk and a few laughs at my expense! Let me know what resonates or your biggest takeaways. And if you need extra support, check the show notes for links to my free assessment and consultation. Wishing you patience, self-love, and all the tools you need to embrace the journey ahead. In this episode, you will be able to: ·        Understand the impact of mental health and Karen behavior. ·        Gain insights into coping mechanisms for stress and anxiety. ·        Discover the importance of self-care for mental well-being. ·        Explore the therapeutic benefits of taking a relaxing bath. The key moments in this episode are: 00:00:05 - Introduction and Podcast Overview 00:02:21 - Are You a Karen? Exploring the Stereotype 00:07:19 - The Underlying Problem 00:12:56 - Personal Examples and Embarrassment 00:19:31 - Managing "Karen" Behavior 00:22:35 - Embracing Support and Healing 00:24:00 - Personal Journey and Overcoming Challenges 00:26:13 - The Importance of Seeking Help 00:29:15 - Understanding Anxiety and Managing Overwhelming Situations 00:41:15 - Empathy and Understanding for "Karens," 00:44:27 - The Power of a Deep Soaking Tub 00:44:44 - The Healing Power of Soaking 00:45:16 - Farewell and Well Wishes 00:44:27 - The Importance of Self-Care 00:44:44 - The Invitation to Relax The resources mentioned in this episode are: ·        Visit www.Nickyasherbowling.com to sign up for a free 1-hour consultation and assessment test for support and guidance in navigating the world of depression and anxiety. ·        Reach out to Nicky Asher-Bowling for a free 1-hour consultation and assessment test to gain insights into emotional well-being and experiences with depression. ·        Take the free assessment test on www.Nickyasherbowling.com to understand the depth of emotional well-being, specifically related to experiences with depression. ·        Join the It's Going to Be Okay community to embrace the unfiltered journey of depression and discover the strength within. ·        Claim your free 1-hour consultation and assessment test on www.Nickyasherbowling.com to prioritize well-being and remind yourself that you're never alone on this path. Connect with me here: ·        https://www.facebook.com/itsgoingtobeokay.xo ·        https://www.linkedin.com/in/nickyasherbowling ·        https://www.youtube.com/@itsgoingtobeokay. ·        https://www.nickyasherbowling.com ·        https://www.twitter.com/nasherbowling --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/itsgoingtobeokay/message
Seeking Support During Holiday Stress: A Path to Emotional Well-Being
Dec 12 2023
Seeking Support During Holiday Stress: A Path to Emotional Well-Being
Seeking Support During Holiday Stress: A Path to Emotional Well-Being Feeling the weight of last-minute Christmas preparations, Nicky found herself in the familiar whirlwind of stress and anxiety. Little did she know this struggle would lead her to a powerful realization about managing mental health during the holiday season. As she delves into her personal journey, she uncovers a unique perspective that offers hope and practical tips for those facing similar challenges. But what was this unexpected twist that reshaped her approach to holiday stress management? In this episode, you will be able to: ·       Discover practical strategies for managing holiday season stress and reclaiming joy.  ·       Learn effective self-care practices to uplift your mood and manage depression during the holiday season.  ·       Explore the benefits of seeking professional help to manage anxiety and find support during the holidays.  ·       Uncover the power of avoiding comparison and negativity to maintain mental well-being during festive times.  ·       Understand the importance of setting boundaries for a healthier and happier holiday season. The key moments in this episode are:            00:00:02 -                          Introduction and Dealing with Christmas Pressure                      00:02:24 -                          Adapting to Changing Circumstances                      00:07:32 -                          Reevaluating Consumerism and Simplifying Plans                      00:09:50 -                          Coping Strategies and Seeking Support                      00:14:23 -                          Planning Ahead and Managing Expectations                      00:21:51 -                          Importance of Self-Care During the Holiday Season                      00:23:57 -                          Rejuvenating the Mind through Relaxation                      00:27:45 -                          Caring for Others and Setting Boundaries                      00:30:59 -                          Focusing on Meaningful Activities and Volunteering                      00:39:15 -                           Limiting Social Media Use for Mental Well-being                      00:43:00 -                          Avoiding Social Media Comparison                      00:43:23 -                          Seeking Professional Help                      00:45:37 -                          Support from Loved Ones                      00:46:57 -                   You Are Worth It           Check out this 2 DIY videos: https://youtu.be/hZq6DMA6xXg?feature=shared with @Liz Fenwick DIY and https://youtu.be/zkh7xsAtl9s?feature=shared @Do It On A Dime --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/itsgoingtobeokay/message
Take the First Step: Free Consultation for Moms Battling Depression and Anxiety
Dec 5 2023
Take the First Step: Free Consultation for Moms Battling Depression and Anxiety
In the depths of darkness, Nicky Asher-Bowling discovered a glimmer of hope. A twist of fate led her on a journey of healing, unlocking a world of understanding and compassion. Now, she shares her story with mothers facing the same struggles, lifting them up with warmth and empathy. But what if I told you there's an unexpected twist to Nicky's powerful tale? Stay tuned, for there's more to this story than meets the eye. In this episode, you will be able to: ·       Discover the challenges of depression and anxiety and gain insights on how to overcome them. ·       Create a safe space for yourself and find solace in understanding and supportive environments. ·       Take advantage of a free 1-hour consultation to receive personalized guidance and support for your emotional well-being. ·       Gain valuable guidance on navigating your emotions and enhancing your overall well-being. ·       Embark on a healing journey surrounded by a community of mothers who understand and support you. The key moments in this episode are:            00:00:01 -                          Facing the Challenges of Depression and Anxiety                      00:00:59 -                          Free Consultation and Assessment Test                      00:01:35 -                          Taking the First Step towards Emotional Well-being                      00:02:22 -                          Finding Strength in Dark Moments                      00:02:47 -               Embracing the Unfiltered Journey of Depression          www.nickyasherbowling.com motherhoodunfilteredgroup@gmail.com --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/itsgoingtobeokay/message
The Power of Adaptation: Transforming Holiday Traditions for a Stress-Free Season
Dec 4 2023
The Power of Adaptation: Transforming Holiday Traditions for a Stress-Free Season
Feeling suffocated by the weight of work, family, and the pressure to create the perfect holiday, Nicky teetered on the edge of exhaustion. But then, amidst the chaos, she stumbled upon an unexpected revelation. A revelation that would forever change her approach to the holiday season. Curious to know what she discovered? Keep reading, and prepare to be amazed by the transformative power of evaluating and modifying holiday traditions. In this episode, you will be able to: ·         Simplify Christmas and reduce stress by rethinking traditions and activities. ·         Manage stress by setting realistic expectations and focusing on what truly matters during the holidays. ·         Prioritize self-care and well-being to enjoy the holiday season with more peace and joy. ·         Seek support and delegate tasks to lighten your load and create a more relaxed holiday experience. ·         Evaluate and modify holiday traditions for greater joy and less stress. The key moments in this episode are:            00:00:02 -                          Introduction                       00:00:55 -                          Technical Relapse                      00:02:57 -                          Challenges of Christmas                      00:04:25 -                          Importance of Self-Care                      00:10:53 -                          Setting Realistic Expectations                      00:21:30 -                          The Importance of Asking for Help                      00:24:34 -                          Evaluating Traditions                       00:28:45 -                          Adjusting Christmas Overwhelm                      00:30:36 -                          Breaking Negative Traditions                      00:33:31 -                          Recap and Final Thoughts           Check out my new promo and email me your thoughts at motherhoodunfilteredgroup@gmail.com --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/itsgoingtobeokay/message
Conquering Challenges with a Grateful Heart: Elevating Your Perspective
Nov 20 2023
Conquering Challenges with a Grateful Heart: Elevating Your Perspective
Join me, the inspirational and grateful host, as I gallop across the waves of radio, podcasts, and streaming platforms, spreading hope and comfort to those seeking refuge in challenging times. In this episode, you will be able to: ·       Discover the powerful concept of a City of Refuge and find solace even in the midst of chaos. ·       Explore the transformative journey of seeking refuge in God and experience an unwavering sense of peace and security. ·       Gain insights from personal experiences with anxiety and learn practical strategies to overcome and find inner calm. ·       Cultivate persistence in seeking God and unlock a deeper connection with Him, leading to a life filled with purpose and meaning. ·       Embrace gratitude as a daily practice and be inspired by uplifting content that will uplift your spirits and motivate you to embrace the beauty of each day. The key moments in this episode are:            00:00:02 -                          Introduction and Update                      00:00:34 -                          City of Refuge                      00:02:29 -                          Learning About the City of Refuge                      00:04:27 -                          Description of the City of Refuge                      00:09:10 -                          Locations of the Cities of Refuge                      00:11:39 -                          Finding Our Own City of Refuge                      00:20:09 -                          Prayer and Farewell                      00:20:33 -                          Future Episodes       The resources mentioned in this episode are: ·       Subscribe to my newsletter: Visit my website, www.nikkiasherbowling.com, and sign up for my newsletter to receive updates and exclusive content. ·       Watch my videos on YouTube or Rumble: Visit my YouTube or Rumble channel to watch all of my videos and stay up to date with new releases. ·       Listen to my podcast: Find my podcast on any platform and listen to episodes where I discuss various topics related to mental health and personal growth. ·       Share, comment, like, and subscribe: Show support by sharing my content with others, leaving comments, liking the videos, and subscribing to my channels. This helps with the algorithm and increases visibility. ·       Find peace and refuge in prayer: When dealing with anxiety, depression, or stressful situations, turn to prayer and seek refuge in God's presence. Take a moment to quiet your mind, breathe deeply, and find calmness. ·       Create your own place of refuge with God: Develop a personal connection with God and establish a space where you can find peace and rest. This can be in your home, a quiet room, or even in the bathroom at work. ·       Take deep breaths and focus on oxygen flow: If you're feeling overwhelmed or Connect with me here: ·       https://www.nickyasherbowling.com ·       https://www.facebook.com/itsgoingtobeokay.xo ·       https://www.linkedin.com/in/nickyasherbowling/ ·       https://www.youtube.com/@itsgoingtobeokay. ·       https://www.youtube.com/@itsgoingtobeokay. ·       https://www.twitter.com/nasherbowling --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/itsgoingtobeokay/message
Surviving Twin Devilry: Tiffany Vaughn's Mental Health Journey with ADHD &; Oppositional Defiance Disorder
Nov 7 2023
Surviving Twin Devilry: Tiffany Vaughn's Mental Health Journey with ADHD &; Oppositional Defiance Disorder
When Tiffany Vaughn reached her breaking point after a decade of struggling to conceive children and managing their ADHD, she tapped into her inner strength to share her hard, beautiful journey through her podcast, book, and coaching.   "My mom and I actually went out to a seminar and the speaker said, 'It's okay to not be okay. And it's okay to ask for help.'" - Tiffany Vaughn Tiffany Vaughn is a mental health advocate from a small town outside of Calgary, Alberta, Canada. She has experienced her own mental health struggles and uses her podcast and coaching to help others dealing with similar issues.   Tiffany Vaughn was struggling with her mental health while trying to balance work, school, and family life. After 5 years of fertility treatments, she and her husband were blessed with a daughter, and 5 years later, twin boys. All of the children were later diagnosed with ADHD. Tiffany found solace in therapy and eventually started her podcast, Hard Beautiful Journey, to help other people going through similar struggles. Her book, which is about generational trauma and her relationship with her brother, who passed away from an overdose, is currently in the works. She offers advice to those with children with ADHD, to pay attention to their behavior and seek help if needed. In this episode, you will learn the following:   1. Mental health challenges faced when trying to conceive a child through IVF 2. Managing the chaos of raising three children, two with ADHD 3. How to recognize signs of mental health issues in children and seek treatment.   Resources: https://hardbeautifuljourney.com/   Other episodes you'll enjoy: 1.      Sasha Star Robertson, 2nd parents and planner extraordinaire! 2.      Boy Mom of 5, Adrianne Taylor Tells All About Raising Boys 3.      Melissa Reilly, "Mom's Without Mom" --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/itsgoingtobeokay/message
Master Your Mind: Declutter Your Way to Mental Well-Being
Nov 1 2023
Master Your Mind: Declutter Your Way to Mental Well-Being
Are you tired of feeling overwhelmed by clutter in your home? Do you long for a sense of calm and peace in your living space? I have the solution to help you achieve the mental and emotional well-being you desire. By implementing effective decluttering practices, you can experience a transformative shift in your life, freeing yourself from the weight of excess belongings and creating a harmonious environment. Get ready to discover the path to a clutter-free home and a rejuvenated sense of well-being. In this episode, you will be able to: ·     Discover the impact of decluttering on your mental and emotional well-being. ·      Learn how to let go of sentimental items and create space for more joy in your life. ·      Experience the benefits of donating unused possessions and positively impact the lives of others. ·     Unlock personal growth and self-discovery through the process of decluttering. ·    Find support and overcome challenges on your journey to a clutter-free life. The key moments in this episode are:         00:00:04 -                          Introduction                      00:01:16 -                          The Importance of Decluttering                      00:05:43 -                          Emotional Attachment to Things                      00:09:54 -                          Approaching Decluttering                      00:12:37 -                          Decluttering as an Ongoing Process                      00:24:05 -                          The Challenge of Letting Go                      00:25:27 -                          Decluttering for Personal Growth                      00:26:33 -                          Less is More                      00:30:07 -                          Seeking Support                      00:33:18 -                          Overcoming Shame and Embracing Imperfections      --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/itsgoingtobeokay/message
Transform Your Life: The Power of Self-Reflection and Personal Growth
Oct 23 2023
Transform Your Life: The Power of Self-Reflection and Personal Growth
Do you desire to enhance your overall well-being and develop a deeper understanding of yourself? Wondering how you can achieve a state of holistic well-being and self-care? Look no further! I have the solution that will enable you to unlock increased self-awareness and attain a more fulfilling and balanced life. Let me guide you on a transformative journey towards a harmonious and thriving existence. In this episode, you will be able to: ·       Discover the key to personal growth and self-improvement, unlocking your full potential. ·       Clear your physical spaces for mental clarity and create a calming environment that promotes focus and productivity. ·       Prioritize holistic well-being and explore the power of self-care, nurturing your mind, body, and spirit. ·       Engage with your community and find support from like-minded individuals on your journey towards well-being. ·       Explore the evolving nature of content creation and stay up-to-date with the latest trends and strategies. The key moments in this episode are: 00:00:05 -                          Introducing "Motherhood Unfiltered"           00:00:28 -                          Personal Journey and Self-Improvement           00:04:45 -                          Organizing and Purging the Home           00:10:47 -                          Physical and Mental Well-being           00:14:02 -                          Finding Joy in Pets           00:22:14 -                          Importance of Ratings and Sharing           00:22:43 -                          Length of Blog Posts           00:23:00 -         visit www.nickyasherbowling.com and sign up for my free newsletter. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/itsgoingtobeokay/message
Find Peace in the Chaos: Essential Self-Care for Work-Related Stress
Sep 26 2023
Find Peace in the Chaos: Essential Self-Care for Work-Related Stress
Identify the problem, analyze it, and find a solution. Doing that work for your boss shows your dedication and initiative. - Nicky Asher-Bowling Transform work-related blunders into opportunities for personal and professional growth. Harness the power of anxiety management to improve workplace performance. Adopt self-care strategies to alleviate stress and boost vitality in a demanding work environment. Leverage a proactive attitude and responsibility-taking habits toward challenges to propel your career. Foster a positive mindset, turning every mistake into a chance for self-improvement and learning. Transforming Mistakes into Opportunities for Growth-This key value encourages reframing of workplace mistakes as platforms for learning rather than causes for disappointment. By analyzing the root causes of the errors and understanding the impacts, individuals can gain new insights and develop improved strategies. This perspective allows for professional growth, underpins an increase in accountability, and helps maintain high standards of work. Managing Anxiety to Improve Workplace Performance-Recognizing the impact of anxiety on work performance is a crucial step towards improving productivity. Nicky shares the concept of proactive communication, especially when something goes wrong, to manage potential stress and anxiety. By acknowledging anxiety, seeking medical advice, and utilizing offered treatments, individuals can better control their reactions and enhance their overall job performance. Adopting Self-Care Strategies for Stress Relief-The convention of self-care is vital in the quest to achieve and maintain a healthy work-life balance. Methods like journaling, walking, and positive breathing help release negative emotions, reduce stress, and provide an outlet for self-expression. By allocating time for personal care, individuals can experience not only improved emotional and mental wellbeing but also enhanced work performance. Please download my free quiz, "How deep in the funk are you?" Take a step back and analyze the situation: Reflect on what went wrong and why it happened. Identify any contributing factors such as feeling overwhelmed or poor time management. Communicate with your boss: If your boss doesn't initiate a conversation about your mistake, take the initiative to schedule a meeting. Be prepared to explain what happened, why it happened, and how you plan to fix it. Take care of your mental health: If your anxiety levels are high, consider speaking with a healthcare professional about medication options. Follow your doctor's advice on dosage and frequency. Develop a follow-up plan: Ensure you have a plan in place to prevent similar mistakes in the future. This may include being diligent at work, paying attention to details, and double-checking your work. Acknowledge and manage your emotions: It's natural to feel embarrassed and upset about making a mistake. Allow yourself to experience these emotions, but try to remain professional and positive in your work. Seek support from your network: Talk to your support team, which may include your spouse, family members, life coach, or professional colleagues. Their guidance and perspective can help you navigate the situation. Take responsibility and learn from the experience https://www.nickyasherbowling.com https://www.facebook.com/motherhoodunfiltereditsgoingtobeokay/about https://www.linkedin.com/in/nickyasherbowling/ --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/itsgoingtobeokay/message
Letting Go with Grace: Overcoming Emotional Attachments to Declutter Your Life
Sep 19 2023
Letting Go with Grace: Overcoming Emotional Attachments to Declutter Your Life
Have you ever heard these myths about decluttering? Myth 1: If I get rid of something, I'm getting rid of the memories attached to it. Myth 2: I might need this one day, so I can't let it go. Myth 3: My stuff defines who I am, so I can't part with it. In this episode, we uncover the truth behind these myths and reveal a powerful strategy to help you overcome emotional attachments and declutter your life. In this episode, you will be able to: Uncover the profound effects of decluttering on your lifestyle and wellness. Navigate the continuous journey of decluttering to achieve a more organized life. Understand the emotional ties we have with clutter and how to overcome them. Discover a streamlined approach to wardrobes for a simplified daily routine. Learn how selective retention of books can alleviate clutter woes. Decluttering helps you mentally, emotionally, and even physically. It keeps you more active in your house and gives you a sense of control over your surroundings. - Nicky Asher-Bowling Understand emotional tiesOne of the primary challenges faced during decluttering is the sentimental value attached to belongings. Although it can be difficult to let go of items grounded in emotions or memories, it is necessary for creating a simplified, stress-free environment. It's about striking a balance between keeping what truly matters and letting go of the rest. The resources mentioned in this episode are: Write a review for the podcast episode. Share the podcast episode with a friend. Leave a comment on the podcast episode. Visit Nikki's website at www.nikkiasherbowling.com. Visit Nikki's YouTube channel. Start decluttering your home. Focus on one area of your house, such as the kitchen, and declutter it. Consider donating unused items to a missions place or nonprofit organization. If you have items you want to sell, consider posting them on social media or using online marketplaces like Facebook Marketplace. Set a number for the amount of clothing items you want to keep, such as 5 tops, 5 pants, etc. Categorize your books and decide which ones to keep based on their impact on your life. Consider renting or buying used books instead of purchasing new ones, especially for technical books that may become outdated quickly. Declutter your bathroom and create clear spaces. Use storage solutions or organizers to keep your home more organized. Consider using visual cues or reminders to stay on top of decluttering and maintaining an organized space. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/itsgoingtobeokay/message
Reviving Hope: Breaking the Chains of Generational Depression
Sep 6 2023
Reviving Hope: Breaking the Chains of Generational Depression
In this episode, you will be able to: Change starts with me. I am breaking the cycle of depression and creating a better future for my family. - Nicky Asher-Bowling I remember the day I started to confront the shadow of depression that had been looming over my family for generations. It was a cold winter day, my own mood mirroring the gloomy weather outside. I looked at the solemn faces of my family members - my mother, my grandmother - and realized that this was a cycle I didn't want to repeat. It wasn't easy, but I took the first step towards breaking the cycle. I opened up a conversation about our shared struggle. It was uncomfortable, but necessary. We started educating ourselves, diving into books, articles, and videos about depression. It wasn't a personal weakness, but a medical condition that deserved attention and care., Slowly, the conversation shifted towards healthy coping mechanisms and support. As a family, we started to understand and recognize the signs of depression. We learned how to express our feelings, to ask for help, to be there for each other. I pushed myself to make positive lifestyle changes, to create an environment that promoted mental well-being. It was a journey, filled with difficulties, but a necessary one. Today, I'm proud of the strides we've made as a family. We've not only broken the cycle of depression, but have also become stronger, more resilient, and more understanding in the process. The resources mentioned in this episode are: · Rate and review the podcast on iTunes. · Comment, like, and subscribe to the YouTube channel. ·  Download the free PDF on signs of depression. ·  Educate yourself and your family members about the signs and symptoms of depression. ·  Create an open and non-judgmental environment for discussing mental health. ·  Encourage early intervention by seeking help from a doctor or therapist. · Explore resources such as books, articles, and videos on managing and treating depression. · Reach out to Nicky for guidance and support if you need help starting a conversation about mental health. · Practice healthy coping mechanisms and support your loved ones in their journey. · Make positive lifestyle changes to prevent depression and promote overall well-being. Connect with me here: ·   https://www.nickyasherbowling.com --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/itsgoingtobeokay/message
Reviving Hope: Breaking the Chains of Generational Depression
Sep 6 2023
Reviving Hope: Breaking the Chains of Generational Depression
In this episode, you will be able to: Change starts with me. I am breaking the cycle of depression and creating a better future for my family. - Nicky Asher-Bowling I remember the day I started to confront the shadow of depression that had been looming over my family for generations. It was a cold winter day, my own mood mirroring the gloomy weather outside. I looked at the solemn faces of my family members - my mother, my grandmother - and realized that this was a cycle I didn't want to repeat. It wasn't easy, but I took the first step towards breaking the cycle. I opened up a conversation about our shared struggle. It was uncomfortable, but necessary. We started educating ourselves, diving into books, articles, and videos about depression. It wasn't a personal weakness, but a medical condition that deserved attention and care., Slowly, the conversation shifted towards healthy coping mechanisms and support. As a family, we started to understand and recognize the signs of depression. We learned how to express our feelings, to ask for help, to be there for each other. I pushed myself to make positive lifestyle changes, to create an environment that promoted mental well-being. It was a journey, filled with difficulties, but a necessary one. Today, I'm proud of the strides we've made as a family. We've not only broken the cycle of depression, but have also become stronger, more resilient, and more understanding in the process. The resources mentioned in this episode are: · Rate and review the podcast on iTunes. · Comment, like, and subscribe to the YouTube channel. ·  Download the free PDF on signs of depression. ·  Educate yourself and your family members about the signs and symptoms of depression. ·  Create an open and non-judgmental environment for discussing mental health. ·  Encourage early intervention by seeking help from a doctor or therapist. · Explore resources such as books, articles, and videos on managing and treating depression. · Reach out to Nicky for guidance and support if you need help starting a conversation about mental health. · Practice healthy coping mechanisms and support your loved ones in their journey. · Make positive lifestyle changes to prevent depression and promote overall well-being. Connect with me here: ·   https://www.nickyasherbowling.com --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/itsgoingtobeokay/message
From Awareness to Action: Combating Human Trafficking Starts at Home
Aug 17 2023
From Awareness to Action: Combating Human Trafficking Starts at Home
Does the thought of human trafficking keep you up at night? Have you been told that just telling your children to be careful is enough to protect them? But deep down, you know that this ineffective action is not bringing you the peace of mind you crave. The pain of knowing that your children are vulnerable to such a horrific crime is unbearable. It's time to uncover the truth and learn effective strategies that will truly safeguard your loved ones from the dark grasp of human trafficking. In this episode, you will be able to: Illuminate the often hidden issue of human trafficking and its alarming prevalence globally. Explore the profound emotional resonance and societal impact the movie "Sound of Freedom" evokes. Appreciate the power of open dialogue with our children in addressing the menace of trafficking. Discover how education can act as a shield in protecting children from the dark underbelly of trafficking. Fortify your understanding of online safety protocols and enhance your critical thinking skills to navigate a safer digital landscape. List 3: If the one thing they need is our money, then I can donate to them. We all have the power to make a difference, no matter how small. - Nicky Asher-Bowling Transparent conversations with childrenStarting conversations with children about critical issues like human trafficking is crucial. Open, transparent discussions foster a safe environment, enabling children to feel secure sharing their experiences. It empowers them with knowledge, teaching them to be vigilant and to communicate any fears or concerns promptly. The resources mentioned in this episode are: Watch the movie The Sound of Freedom to raise awareness about human trafficking and support the cause. Donate to Operation Underground Railroad to help fund their rescue missions and aftercare programs for survivors of human trafficking. Support local non-profit organizations like Bridge to Home in Ohio, which provides shelter and support for girls who have been trafficked. Educate yourself and your family about the dangers of human trafficking, especially online, and take steps to protect your children. Spread the word about human trafficking by sharing information and resources on social media, and encourage others to get involved in the fight against this crime. www.nickyasherbowling.com --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/itsgoingtobeokay/message