50 min
Vibrators changed my life - Jazz Good Girls Talk About Sex
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- Sexuality
Jazz is a 31-year-old gender non-conforming, femme-identified person who uses the pronouns "they" and "theirs". They describe themselves as black, polyamorous, and pansexual with an active dating life.
The major theme of this episode is gender. Jazz talks about how genitals are not the be-all-end-all of gender. If all of the recent talk about gender as a spectrum has you confused or uncomfortable, this is the episode to listen to!
Here are some of the notable moments they shared with us:
3:55 – Jazz’s “attacks of pleasure” in elementary school 7:45 – Their first time masturbating at age 14 9:40 – How training as a performer left them disembodied and dissociated 13:50 – The emergence of Jazz’s gender non-conforming identity 16:10 – What non-binary means 19:25 – Jazz’s first boyfriend, including a lack of negotiation and advocacy for themselves 24:40 – Discovering vibrators and toys 26:10 – Discovering attraction to multiple kinds of bodies and kissing a girl for the first time 30:20 – Jazz’s defines what “solo-poly” means to them 30:48 – What is a comet partner? 32:00 – Trying out triad relationships 32:56 – How Jazz’s body shape has impacted their experience of sex—not being able to be fully themself because partners have identified them as female 37:00 – Being affirmed in a recent relationship and embracing their chin hair 41:30 – The joys of group sex The Lowdown:
Do you have sex during your period? Can you orgasm from intercourse or strap-on sex alone? Do you prefer the orgasm from masturbation or partnered sex? Have you ever had a threesome or more? Have you ever had public sex? The Patreon extras for this episode are:
At the $5/month level, Jazz talks about their journey to discovering non-monogamy At the $7/month level, that conversation plus the extended Q&A At the $10/month level, all that plus a monthly Ask Me Anything! Learn more and become a community supporter at www.patreon.com/goodgirlstalkaboutsex.
If you like this show, please leave a rating and review at https://ratethispodcast.com/goodgirls
Want to be on the show? Visit www.leahcarey.com/guest and let me know that you’re interested. I’d love to talk with you!
To learn about Sexual Communication Coaching, visit www.leahcarey.com/coaching
Host – Leah Carey (Facebook, Instagram, YouTube, email)
Editor – Gretchen Kilby
Music by – Nazar Rybak
Jazz is a 31-year-old gender non-conforming, femme-identified person who uses the pronouns "they" and "theirs". They describe themselves as black, polyamorous, and pansexual with an active dating life.
The major theme of this episode is gender. Jazz talks about how genitals are not the be-all-end-all of gender. If all of the recent talk about gender as a spectrum has you confused or uncomfortable, this is the episode to listen to!
Here are some of the notable moments they shared with us:
3:55 – Jazz’s “attacks of pleasure” in elementary school 7:45 – Their first time masturbating at age 14 9:40 – How training as a performer left them disembodied and dissociated 13:50 – The emergence of Jazz’s gender non-conforming identity 16:10 – What non-binary means 19:25 – Jazz’s first boyfriend, including a lack of negotiation and advocacy for themselves 24:40 – Discovering vibrators and toys 26:10 – Discovering attraction to multiple kinds of bodies and kissing a girl for the first time 30:20 – Jazz’s defines what “solo-poly” means to them 30:48 – What is a comet partner? 32:00 – Trying out triad relationships 32:56 – How Jazz’s body shape has impacted their experience of sex—not being able to be fully themself because partners have identified them as female 37:00 – Being affirmed in a recent relationship and embracing their chin hair 41:30 – The joys of group sex The Lowdown:
Do you have sex during your period? Can you orgasm from intercourse or strap-on sex alone? Do you prefer the orgasm from masturbation or partnered sex? Have you ever had a threesome or more? Have you ever had public sex? The Patreon extras for this episode are:
At the $5/month level, Jazz talks about their journey to discovering non-monogamy At the $7/month level, that conversation plus the extended Q&A At the $10/month level, all that plus a monthly Ask Me Anything! Learn more and become a community supporter at www.patreon.com/goodgirlstalkaboutsex.
If you like this show, please leave a rating and review at https://ratethispodcast.com/goodgirls
Want to be on the show? Visit www.leahcarey.com/guest and let me know that you’re interested. I’d love to talk with you!
To learn about Sexual Communication Coaching, visit www.leahcarey.com/coaching
Host – Leah Carey (Facebook, Instagram, YouTube, email)
Editor – Gretchen Kilby
Music by – Nazar Rybak
50 min